Social Pressures

The term "well aged" refers to the idea that things get better as it gets older. As years pass, whatever "it" is, is suppose to be better or get better in some way or form.

As we age, year after year, life gets more complex, until it hits its apex and begins to simplify once again. does it not?

When we were children, life was simple, respect, learn, do things that made you happy and eat candy. With time, you get older and you're now given responsibilities, not only to yourself but to your family.

We are said to be biologically programed to want to find a significant other or someone to spend time with.

WE have social norms that suggest we have a best friend, and relationships with people. We also are taught to be social and etc.

Somewhere we develop these emotions of happiness, sadness, jealousy, pain, discomfort, and etc. to describe what we feel and become an accurate description of our moods. But where along the lines do we learn to develop such emotions and social norms.

Where were we taught to have to have a social status, in terms of a relationship. People spend time together, do we need to label it under such a description? Why is there a need to, whether from one side or the other to clarify what exactly it is that is going on.

Ambiguity fosters questions that "need" to be answered. But why do you need to answer them, what happened in our development that has created this desire to clarify ambiguity, to have to or need to describe whatever it is that is happening.

The simplest answer, that essentially leads to more ambiguity is that it is really just Human Nature. But where did this description of Human Nature come from? How and who defined it. Is it simply because there really isn't any other explanation for it so we call it Human Nature. Is this development caused by the environment or was it innate. A brain function that as humans, the complex nature of our brain, this is just a production/consequence of this organism?

Confusing? Yes of course, did I make even MORE confusing, absolutely. Lets just say its my human nature and leave at that.